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An interesting topic that I’ve thought about recently is “self image“. What I mean by this is the way you act and (try) to appear to other people. Examples of this could be changing your appearance to fit in with others around you or even (in some circumstances) changing your whole attitude, likes / dislikes, music taste, etc (some do this just to fit in). I’ve seen many people do it, in fact, I would even go as far as saying we all do it at some point in our lives. It may even be for a really important reason like getting that job, but we still all do it.
The sad thing is, this (sort 0f) indicates that none of us are really happy for who we really are. Let’s get into the discussion. I’m going to say that I’m one that isn’t that bothered about their self image. I’ll explain. I have a terrible wardrobe of clothes, I know this (and all my friends tell me so). I wear clothes that are comfy, and also (it’s sad, but) give me good memories. Take my t-shirt collection (yes, I always wear t-shirts all the time), each t-shirt (not all, some) gives me a different memory. I’m not really bothered about how much my clothes cost, where they’re from and which designer made them, I buy clothes because I like wearing them.
In what way does this relate to self image? Well, some are really bothered about what they wear and get worked up over small decisions such as what top to wear or what accessory, etc. It’s stupid, it’s causing un-needed stress, why do it? We do it to appeal, impress and meet the standards of peers around us, we want to be accepted and respected – it seems you can’t gain much for just being a nice guy any more.
I’ll stay on the topic of me, but let’s switch to the way we act. I myself act like a complete and utter fool around most (yes, I’ve picked up on it!). Some hate it, meanwhile some people are friends with me for this very reason, they like me for it. At the same time, other people are so self-concious about the way they act, they constantly worry in their head “what’s she thinking about me, is that guy whispering and laughing at me or what?”. You know what, this actually makes me laugh in a way. I say it to many people who come to me for advice (yes, I do get people coming to me and I’m happy to help), especially about their friends and stuff then I usually end up saying the same thing (or along the lines); “be yourself and watch, you’ll then learn who your real friends are”.
I was going to discuss the general way we look but then again, it’s sort of repeating what I’ve already said. Sure, making yourself look good is fine, we all want to look good (don’t we?) but I could bring up the way people change their whole appearance to fit in with others. I’ve said it – I won’t go any further.
This blog post (or little article) could be expanded further but I’ve decided to leave it here. I hope you all enjoy summer.